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Externalise your executive function

Move memory and planning out of your head and into the world: visual schedules, checklists, alarms with labels, and micro-steps instead of "write report".

Manage sensory input & energy

Map your triggers, use noise-cancelling headphones and earplugs, create a low-stim recovery zone, and schedule breaks before you're exhausted — not after a shutdown.

Emotional regulation & self-compassion

Learn your early warning signs, build a pre-decided "pause plan", try brief grounding, and frame difficulties as brain differences — not personal failings.

Daily-life adaptations

Dedicated low-distraction workspaces, "landing zones" near the door for keys and wallet, automating recurring decisions, and outsourcing where you can to free up cognitive bandwidth.

Body doubling & accountability

Working alongside someone — in person or over a video call — lowers the cost of starting and sticking with tasks. It's one of the most effective, low-effort ADHD strategies, and it helps autistic focus too.

Sensory budgets

Think of sensory input like spending money. Track what drains you (noise, crowds, fluorescent light) and what restores you, then plan high-cost events with recovery time banked afterwards.

Transition rituals

A small repeated action — a breath, a phrase, a walk to the kettle — signals to your brain that one activity is ending and another is beginning. It eases task-switching and softens unexpected changes.

Masking, unmasking & burnout

Masking (hiding your natural traits to fit in) is a major energy drain and a leading cause of burnout. Identifying safe contexts to unmask — trusted friends, online communities — is recovery, not weakness.

Sleep & wind-down scaffolds

A fixed wind-down sequence with a transition cue (a song, dimmed lights, a warm drink) tells your nervous system it's safe to switch off. Protect the last hour from high-stimulation input, and keep wake times consistent.

Choice architecture & friction

Design your environment so the helpful choice is the easy one: put your book on the pillow, your phone charger across the room, healthy food at eye level. Add friction to what pulls you off-track, remove it from what helps.